Get on with it

March 20th, 2008

To think too long about doing a thing, often becomes its undoing.

Open sesame

March 19th, 2008

More doors are opened with “please” than with keys.

10 tips to Overcoming Fear of Public Speaking

March 7th, 2008

If you have never spoken in public before you more than likely dread the thought of it, or if you have had a bad experience you may now have a crisis of confidence. Let me assure you these fears and more can be overcome. Here are the most common:-

  • Fear of drying up
  • Fear of forgetting
  • Fear of going on too long
  • Fear of boring people
  • Fear of not sounding right
  • Fear of trembling hands and trembling voice
  • Fear of having a weak speech

YES you can overcome the lot. Here are just a few tips on which to get started:-

  1. Prior to writing the speech/presentation collect ideas, stories, interesting facts, anything that you may be able to use before you start to write.
  2. When you write the speech there must be a beginning, a middle and close.
  3. The beginning should be an interesting fact or a people story. The purpose is to get their attention, it is best not to have a weak joke.
  4. The middle is the content, this is where you make your case or present your main theme.
  5. Illustrate the speech with stories or people to make it interesting. Genuine case histories and examples are excellent.
  6. The better the preparation the less the fear and the more confident you will feel.
  7. Always take some deep breaths before you start, this will settle the nerves.
  8. Always have notes with big writing. Your notes must be your aid not a trap.
  9. Remember the 6 P’s – Proper Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance.
  10. Invest in yourself, get some training, this will reap untold rewards, every good speaker has had some training.

When the going gets tough, the tough keeps losing..

March 7th, 2008

One of life’s little ironies is that when you finally master a tough job, you make it look easy.

Giving up? So easy!

March 7th, 2008

Falling down is not defeat.. defeat is when you refuse to get up…

Tales of the unexpected!

March 5th, 2008

Never expect things to happen. Struggle and make them happen. Never expect yourself to be given a good value. Create a value worth having.

What wave are you on?

March 4th, 2008

Awareness is a major key to success. Keep your radar finely tuned. You never know where a good idea will come from or how far it will take you.

How far would you go?

February 27th, 2008

If you have tried to do something but couldn’t, you are far better off then if you had tried to do nothing and succeeded.

X-men

February 22nd, 2008

Real leaders are ordinary people with extraordinary determination.

Push you limits

February 21st, 2008

Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.