How to tell when your boss is lying
August 27th, 2010The headline of this blog comes straight from an Economist article of the same name. As usual from the Economist, its fascinating stuff.
The article is about a study undertaken by Stanford University to work out if it is possible to tell when company bosses are lying on conference calls. It found that when lying, bosses tend to:
- make more general rather than specific references
- use more extreme language (‘fantastic’, rather than ‘good’)
- talk in the third person rather than say ‘I’
- swear more
- verbally hesitate less (i.e. less ‘ums’ when speaking)
The first three points are fairly self-explanatory. Swearing more is not. But what really interests me is the lack of ‘ums’ and ‘ahs’. Logic suggests more ‘ums’ might be likely when lying. The article offers a reasonable explanation why this is not the case – the deceptive bosses may have been coached in how to lie persuasively!
When we train clients in presentations skills, we do aim for a deception of sorts. We try to cover-up any nerves the presenter is feeling. If we look nervous when we speak in public we dent our credibility, and so we aim to appear confident. We also try to reduce the number of ‘ums’ and ‘ahs’, simply to help the presenter appear more polished.
The article suggests in the future PR firms will coach lying bosses to swear less, hesitate more and use less enthusiastic language.
Of course, just telling the truth is a lot easier, and requires less training. And perhaps lying bosses should be aware it’s good for peace-of-mind too!
Kieran Bird
